Awkward Family Portraits

We all have them...those family portraits where something just isn't right.  I have a few doozies, taken at Christmas when our oldest daughter and her family were visiting.  It's hard at the best of times to get a picture of a family of seven with everyone looking presentable, but for some reason, this series of pictures exceeded themselves in the awkward category.

I hope Jenny will be able to forgive me for posting these. For some reason  she had a hard time smiling for this photo shoot. Hope you enjoy a laugh.

 We'll start with one of the 'good' ones

Jenn, Anders and their boys

 Anders took over as photographer so Grammie and Papa could be in some pictures

                              

                                     Something spooked Grammie!

Things are really coming apart now...love Jennys body language.

Clearly Micah has had enough.

 And finally, one of the 'good' ones with Papa and Grammie

Aren't family photo shoots fun!!!

After All....

...After all the excitement, eating, company, gifts, partying, is over, we're left alone with a quiet house and lots of great memories...two seniors, content to have come this far together looking forward to whatever good the future holds for us and trying to ignore the not so good.

We had a wonderful Christmas time.  We were visited by five of our kids and their families - not all together - our downsized house would never hold them all - but nicely spaced with a bit of overlap, allowing us to enjoy each group as they arrived.

First on the scene was Mary and her family.  We enjoyed an early Christmas celebration with them.

Layla and Baron with Papa

Layla and Baron visiting the light displays in the neighbourhood

Mary and Greg, who drove across the mountains to be with their parents for Christmas

Then, on Christmas Eve, Emily and Allan arrived, to celebrate their last Christmas as a childless couple with us.  Next year they'll bring their baby daughter with them.

Their gifts included presents for baby Olive of course.

On Boxing Day, Sara arrived with her three girls while Max and his dad stayed in Edmonton for Max's hockey tournament, which Max's team won.  Yea Max.

We all went out to our favorite Mexican Cafe 

Sara and Emily spent time in my scrapbook room sorting through
lots of pictures of themselves they had forgotten even existed.

Charlie peeled potatoes for our ham and scalloped potato dinner

And then we relaxed with our iPads

While Papa entertained Elly and Quinn with some fun songs on
his iPhone.  Who remembers the old lady who swallowed a fly, or the windmill in
Amsterdam?  Those little girls really enjoyed listening to them witt Papa.

Mike and Avril, who live just a few miles away, came over several times to visit with the sisters and their kids.

Hannah, Kenny and Alex all manage to play together with my iPad

Six of the grandkids all together is quite a crowd in our small house.  It's nice
seeing them play together and get to know one another so well.  Three of
Sara's kids and three of Mike's

Sara, Mike, Me, Emily, Lloyd

Then, when all the Christmas guests left and we had nearly two whole days to get all the beds changed, sheets washed, etc. Jenny's family of five boys arrived to help us enjoy the New Year.  It was a fun three days with them.

Jenn had a hard time smiling for this picture...you should see some of the
out-takes.  There's never a dull moment with this crew around.

For some reason, one night everyone who sat in this particiular chair picked up Lloyd's hat from the end table and wore it for awhile.  Aren't they a handsome lot.

So Lloyd and I have taken a couple days of doing nothing, just relaxing and remembering the fun of having so many family members around.

And now it's January 2014.  Time to get on with life, and planning, and enjoying each day as it comes.  Here's hoping it's a good one.

Happy Christmas Eve Day

That's the first message I got on my iPad this morning from bff Mickey.  "Happy Christmas Eve Day".

How the kids used to love Christmas Eve Day...only one more day left before Christmas...the excitement was thick in the air. I think it was the longest day of the year for them.

For me it meant a lot of prep work for the next day festivities...stuffing to make, chocolate cake to bake to be the basis of our traditional Death By Chocolate Christmas dinner dessert, stocking stuffers to wrap, preparing some of the vegetable dishes for the big dinner, etc.

But the best part of the day was evening.  The kids would all be bathed and in their pyjamas.  The family would sit in the livingroom and Lloyd would read the Christmas story from the New Testament.  I would read The Night Before Christmas, we might even have sung a carol or two.  Then all nine stockings (Lloyd and I liked opening stockings too!) would be lined up on the couch (we didn't have a fireplace to hang them from), cookies and milk would be set out for Santa, the room darkened except for the lights on the Christmas tree, and the kids would go to bed, hopefully to fall asleep quickly.

As soon as it was quiet in the kids' bedrooms, Lloyd and I would bring the brightly wrapped Christmas presents from their secure (we hoped) hiding places and arrange them under the tree - the Santa gift usually unwrapped.  After all, how would Santa have time to wrap up all those presents for all the kids in the world? Then we would stuff the stockings, always starting with a Christmas orange in the toe.

Now the real work would begin...assembling whatever special gifts needed assembling.  I remember one particular Christmas when our oldest daughter was eight or nine.  Her Santa gift was a Barbie doll house - three levels with an elevator up the side.  I'm ashamed to tell you that the Christmas spirit almost died that night.  That blasted doll house took forever to put together - two or three hours - with tempers strained to the breaking point as we tried to get all the little parts where they belonged without making a noise and waking the sleeping (we hoped) children.  Eventually it got done and was worth the effort when we saw how pleased Jenny was with her very special gift.  The elevator even worked!

After we got all the presents organized and assembled, we collapsed onto the couch and ate the goodies left out for Santa (we earned them!) and went to bed for a few hours' sleep until the kids got up and the Christmas fun began.

I hope you all have a fun Christmas Eve Day and a wonderful Christmas day with family and loved ones.

Birthday Shutout

All winter long our grandson, Max, plays hockey.  Saturdays and Sundays are devoted to team practices and games.  He's been doing this for four years now.

Yesterday, Max's 9th birthday, Lloyd and I went to watch one of his games.  Max is the team's only goalie so he doesn't miss a game.  His dad, Quincey, used to be a goalie too, playing on three different leagues every year for several years. And his grandfather, Lloyd, spent all his boyhood winters playing hockey, an activity that continued into his adult years. When you're Canadian, hockey is in your DNA.

Max's whole family attends every game and practice.  The girls manage to entertain themselves at the rink doing anything but watch the game, but they're there supporting their brother.

Big sister Charlie

Baby sister Quinn

Little sister Eloise

Quincey, Lloyd and Sara.  Poor Sara came to the game straight
from the dentist, with a swollen face and lots of pain.

It was fun watching our boy face bown a team of rampaging 9-year olds as they tried to shoot a frozen rubber puck into the net behind him.  Max is a good goalie though, and didn't allow a single goal.  His team won the game 4-0 and Max had the coveted shutout on his birthday.

A goalie's game is often a lonely one, watching while his teammates put
the puck in their opponents net.

Waiting for the opposing players

Defending his net

Getting down to business

The hero of the game, with his shutout scoresheet.

 Happy birthday Max!

Gender Reveal

Some of you may remember being pregnant and wanting to know the gender of your baby before he/she made his/her grand arrival.  There were all kinds of 'tricks' we used to tell us what we were having.

Hanging a needle over your hand by a thread and watching it rotate.  Around in a circle meant you were having a girl, back and forth indicated a boy had taken up lodging in your uterus.

Heartburn during pregnancy meant the baby had hair, which probably meant it was a little girl.

If you carried the baby 'low', it was surely a boy.

And there were more...I tried them all.

Fast forward a few years to the remarkable technology which allowed you to actually see your little passenger before he/she was born.  If you were lucky, the seeing allowed you to know whether you were having a boy or a girl.

I was kept in the dark about the gender of all seven of my kids until I actually pushed them into the world.

Not so for my kids.  It was always fun to know in advance what kind of grandchild we were going to have.  Now that knowing is so common and facebook is so 'out there', young parents-to-be are thinking of creative ways to announce the gender of their coming baby.

Here's Emily and Allan's announcement of our expected granddaughter.

It's so cute I just had to post it.  Be prepared for lots of baby pictures come April.

Getting Ready for Christmas

Lloyd and I have spent the last few days getting our home ready for Christmas.  Now that Lloyd is retired and is home all the time he has time to spend doing these homey things, and he's discovered he really, really likes being involved in the decorating.

While he busied himself outside in the minus 37C (34.6 below zero F) temperatures, I had the easier, and warmer, job of decorating the inside of the house.

That's our little home in Lethbridge.

This is my very favorite picture so far this year...Lloyd freezing
his fingers for the sake of beautifying the house.  He had to
keep stopping to put his gloves on.

The finished front step area

Admiring his work.

And a night view.  He has since changed the red
spotlight to white.

He has some more decorating to do in the back yard.  He'll probably spend most of today working on it.

Meanwhile, inside the house, here are a few of my favorite things.

Colorful Nativity Ornaments

Christmas Owls and Jim Shore Santas.

Christmas angels

I hope you're enjoying this pre-Christmas season and all the bustle and work that goes into making it a fun and peaceful time for yourself and others around you.  Three of our daughters and one of our sons and their families will be visiting us at various times over the holidays, and we'll be visiting with our other son and two daughters and their families as well, so it'll be a busy time for us.

Off to a Great Start....or Not

Lloyd and I had a most interesting, at times funny, nerve-wracking, and sometimes dangerous day this past Monday.  The sad part is I have no pictures to illustrate it.

Here's my story.

We had decided, since we had a week free, that we'd fly down to Arizona for a break before Christmas.  We were to leave on Monday afternoon.  Now that we're living in Lethbridge we drive three hours to Great Falls, Montana to catch a two-hour flight to Phoenix.

We decided to get an early start to avoid a storm that was supposed to be coming down from farther north that day.  When we got up and looked out the window, it was a nice, clear, warmish day for this time of year.  By the time we went out to the car barely two hours later a wind had come up and it was snowing.  No matter.  We were still ahead of the storm.  We went to Rickey's Restaurant for breakfast on our way out of town.  That's where things started to get interesting.

As we were walking from the truck to the restaurant, I noticed Lloyd seemed to be staggering a bit.  I asked if he was ok and he just said that he was having trouble with his balance.  We went inside and got seated and Lloyd started dozing off.  I kept grabbing his hand to keep him awake long enough to order our meal.  But it was all he could do to stay alert.  He'd doze off, jerk awake, mutter something unintelligible, eat something, and doze off again.  That is not at all like him.  Finally I asked him if he had taken his pills before we left the house.  He replied that he had.  I asked if one of them was a little blue one.  Yes it was.  It was a sleeping pill that his doctor had prescribed a couple weeks ago but which he hadn't needed yet!  Not a good time to make a mistake like that!!! I had to laugh at him, he was acting so goofy. I'm sure the waitress thought he was drunk the way he'd doze off, wake up, talk nonsense and then doze off again.  At least we know the pills work, but he'll only take them at night now.

One of our discussions on the way home was about breakfast.  It went like this:
Lloyd:  We haven't eaten much today.
Me:  Well, we had breakfast, lunch and dinner
Lloyd:  We had breakfast?
Me:  Yes, in Lethbridge
Lloyd:  What did I have?
Me:  Eggs, bacon, sausages, toast, orange juice, coffee
Lloyd:  Funny - I don't remember that.

Gee I wonder why?

I told him we should go home and cancel the trip.  He insisted he'd be all right in a couple of hours if I'd do the driving.  We hadn't bought trip insurance and he didn't want to forfeit the cost of the ticket.  So I got him out to the truck and he was immediately asleep.  The driving wasn't too bad, just lots of snow blowing across the highway.  I had to wake Lloyd up at the US border crossing while we were cleared to go.  As we drove through Montana the blowing snow and visibility got steadily worse.  For awhile I just got behind a semi and followed him so I'd know where the road was.  After two hours we came to the town of Shelby where we always stop at the truck stop for a break.  Lloyd seemed to be much more awake and alert at that point so he wanted to drive the last hour into Great Falls.

The closer we got to Great Falls the worse the visibility became, at times the blowing snow totally obscured the road.  By the time we reached Great Falls, the area was in a total white out.  So we pulled into our favorite Mexican Restaurant there and sat down to enjoy a meal while we waited for it to be time to go to the airport.  While we were sitting there, Lloyd got a call on his cell phone from Delta Air telling us that all flights out of the Montana airports were cancelled because of the storm.  The earliest they could get us on another flight was Wednesday (today).  That wouldn't work for us since we had to come home on Saturday, so they refunded us the cost of the tickets.  Very nice people to deal with.

We decided that rather than waste the trip so far we'd do some Christmas shopping in Great Falls and head home later.  The stores were practically deserted, which made shopping easy and fun and we managed to finish our shopping there.

It was dark by the time we left Great Falls, and still snowing and blowing, but Lloyd was much more awake and lucid so he was up for the drive.  (You might notice that we don't always make the best decisions!).  The drive home was awful.  The normally three hour trip took us close to seven hours.  The storm had worsened considerably through the day and all the sane people were holed up someplace safe.  Luckily we had a four-wheel drive truck which had no trouble holding the road and plowing through snow but there were times it was quite frightening - times we couldn't see the road or anything except blowing snow.  Thanks to Lloyd's good reflexes and excellent driving (and the good sleep he had earlier in the day!) we managed to slowly get home, but not without a couple of close calls with the ditches.

When we stopped at the Canadian Border crossing on the way back, the young officer took pity on this foolish old couple driving around in the storm and didn't ask us to come in to pay tax and duty on the $500 worth of merchandise we had bought in the US.  Some people are so nice.  I think we might have been the only people he saw there that night.

You can imagine the relief we felt when we were finally back in Lethbridge.  It was just about midnight when we pulled into our driveway, which Lloyd spent the next hour shovelling out.  Certainly not the warmth of Arizona we were expecting to be enjoying at that time.  Oh well, we'll try again in February.

Hopefully our trip to Edmonton next week will be easier and less eventful.